Posts Tagged ‘men’

Is going to the Strip Club Cheating?

Monday, April 27th, 2009

I posed this question today on Twitter:

Is going to the strip club considered cheating in your relationship?

I had to add that last part.  There is no right or wrong answer to this question, because every relationship is based upon different mutually acceptable agreements.

I have customers ask me from time to time, “I don’t think I’m cheating on her by being here…do you?”

My response is always, “Whose opinion matters more to you, mine or your wife’s?”

Happy Anniversary to Diary of a SuperStripper

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009

I didn’t even realize it….but today marks TWO YEARS of Blogging.  My very first post was on 4/8/07 entitled I’m a Bad Girl with Good Morals!

Myspace unfortunately has axed my oldest posts.  Good thing it is archived at our new location www.stripandgrowrich.com/blog

SuperStripperFriends

Tuesday, March 24th, 2009

Bridgette/Jessica Rabbit and I realized that in the 9 years we have been internet SuperStripperFriends, we have never worked together.  Ever.  We have worked at the same clubs, and in the same cities….but never in the same club in the same city on the same night.


So when she texted me that her flight got in at 9pm from the upper Midwest where she had a booking last week, I immediately told her to high tale it to Treasures to help me entertain The Whale’s group.  So she literally got off the plane, Stripperfied herself, clocked in by 11:30, and was just in time!  The group really ended up only being two guys….and it was hilarious how the vultures were swarming around them when Jacko escorted them from the front door straight to VIP.

Weird Weather and March Madness

Sunday, March 22nd, 2009

The drive to Vegas was hot and sunny. I learned a long time ago that long road trips with the convertible top down REALLY tires me out. The drive took 6 hours this time due to the tourist traffic across Hoover Dam. I hope that bridge is completed soon. Took a quick nap and clocked in at Treasures at 7:30 pm. I paid the offstage fee since I walked in the door with a 5 hour deal already closed.

The Whale was waiting.

What is Reality?

Saturday, March 14th, 2009

We only get an edited look at the world around us.  That is because our beliefs act as filters, screening out any evidence that doesn’t support what we want to believe is true.


1. As humans, we make life choices that harmonize with our beliefs.  We unconsciously choose to put ourselves in situations and associate with people that fit our preconceptions.  We avoid people and situations that might weaken or challenge what we believe to be true.

Attitude outranks Facts

Thursday, March 12th, 2009

I got a genuine compliment from my first customer of the evening tonight, “You’re the coolest chick I’ve come across in the past five years….and I’m not just saying that because you’re straddling me half naked.”


Having a positive self-image is imperative to finding success in this industry.  Your self-image is the subconscious mechanism responsible for guiding your behavior.  We always act consistently with the image we have of ourselves.  If you see yourself as a second or third tier dancer who most guys don’t want a dance from…then by golly you aren’t going to sell many dances.

Friday Night FBR Crowd

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

The evening began when I stepped on the floor. I saw a round faced older gentleman sitting alone and made him my first target. However the young couple next to him flagged me down first. “Dance for her,” the mid twentyish kid said while handing me a twenty. She was about 5 foot 1 and a size 0. Usually petite women look for other petite women, but she sat back in the chair, and said “I always wanted to be tall and curvy!” We always want what we don’t have. She kept nervously tapping her foot the whole time, but laid back and just enjoyed the sensation of hair and warm skin.

Rain

Sunday, January 25th, 2009

Only in Arizona does a spring shower mean “Stay at home!” And yes, it’s springtime here: the roses in my front yard are in full bloom and over six feet tall!

Babe’s Cabaret was slow. Of course, I was not on the top of my game either. The antihistamines made my head dizzy, and I was constantly straining my voice just to maintain normal conversation. I met some really nice folks from Portland early in the night though. The slight drizzle didn’t deter them from driving into Scottsdale from the golf resort.

Barrett Jackson/NFC Championship Game Day 6

Monday, January 19th, 2009

Someone asked me how Panda got his blog name. He picked it. In his own words “Because everyone thinks pandas are so cute and so sweet….but get into the cage with ‘em and….they’re still A BEAR!”

Babes Cabaret was a sea of Red Cardinals Jerseys at 7pm on Sunday Night. After all these years, there is still just something weird about being in a strip club on Sunday night! Oh well, they were drunk and spending their bet money.

Day FIVE Rocked!

Sunday, January 18th, 2009

Good things come to those who work their a$$ off….

Babe’s was steady all night long with Iggles Fans. I even resurrected my accent to trigger their Friendship Hot Button. I never had a very thick Philly accent, but at times water comes out “wood-er” and the plural of you is “yous” or “yous guys.”

Met a bunch of guys who drove down from Vegas to watch the Iggles play. Also ran into a guy who was the bouncer at Mr. J’s in Orange County. He was “too cool” to buy a dance. C’mon…just because you worked in the industry at some point doesn’t mean you’re too cool to purchase the service that once supported your own livelihood.


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