First let me give my definition of the Madonna/Whore Complex. I use the more mainstream definition, rather than Freud’s spin on it. Why? Because Freud was a behaviorist who proported psychic determinism and allow us to blame other people both past and present for our current decisions. Personally I favor Viktor Frankel’s theory of self-determinism, which basically says that YOU control your own destiny, even if your parents didn’t do the best job raising you.
So, my definition of the Madonna/Whore Complex:
Men classify all women into one of only two categories: either evil sexual temptress, or good and pure saint; a woman has to be one or the other. Read more...(848 words, estimated 3:24 mins reading time)
At one time or another, we have all asked ourselves:What is THAT girl doing?Why does SHE always make twice as much money as I do?Is there something I should be doing different?? You know who I’m talking about.She is in every club.You see her counting more than what you said was your GOAL for the night and the shift isn’t even close to over yet!!How does she do that?
It’s because she is in The SuperStripper Zone Read more...(301 words, estimated 1:12 mins reading time)
I met the most interesting person at Babes Cabaret the other night. The party of four white guys in golf shirts were seated at a table next to the main stage table. When it was my turn for stage rotation, DJ Billy blasted the Van Halen. Each gentleman at the table tipped me a Washington, the one closest to the stage tucked a Lincoln into the side of my gstring. As many of you know, I’m not a great stage dancer…but I am pretty good at closing a lapdance sale at the tip rail. Read more...(411 words, estimated 1:39 mins reading time)
StripandGrowRich is at 100% functionality today. In addition to the DancerWealth, DancerWise and DancerVictory programs, we also have an affiliate and mentoring program in the works!
I know a lot of my readers and friends are veteran dancers who are awaiting our referral program. The official StripandGrowRich Affilitate Program will launch next week, which will allow you to earn a 25% commission just for telling those new dancers at the club (who are always asking you for free advice) about us. Stay tuned for details! Read more...(197 words, estimated 47 secs reading time)
I am VERY pleased with the feedback from my BetaTesters! It is so fulfilling to know that I’m helping!
From Luvbuniz in Las Vegas via www.stripperweb.com “I’ve bought the new Dancerwealth and it’s good. It’s not a rehash of the old course and much more sales based. I pretty much banked the first few days after watching the videos.”
Is going to the strip club considered cheating in your relationship?
I had to add that last part. There is no right or wrong answer to this question, because every relationship is based upon different mutually acceptable agreements.
I have customers ask me from time to time, “I don’t think I’m cheating on her by being here…do you?”
My response is always, “Whose opinion matters more to you, mine or your wife’s?” Read more...(211 words, estimated 51 secs reading time)
My evening started with the guys from West Virginia at the bar. I was sipping my Diet Coke when one of the middle aged white guys in a golf shirt stumbled over his own foot and plowed into the barstool next to me. “I’ve been drinkin’ since noon…” he mumbles. I have been actively working on my bar-hustle because I usually gravitate towards the guys sitting at a table before the guys sitting at the bar. After a bit of chit-chat I begin to set up my test-close, “The only problem with hanging out here at the bar is that you don’t have a lap!” The test close is NOT asking directly for a dance, but rather leading the conversation in that direction to gauge how ready he is to be closed. West Virginia was ready, he basically sold himself “Yeah, I need a lap for you to give me a lapdance. Lets go over there.” Read more...(377 words, estimated 1:30 mins reading time)
