We have all seen the Law of Attraction and The Secret, or at least know the gist of it-what you focus on will get better.  It’s a nice thought isn’t it?  But if you don’t DO anything about it, it’s just a thought.

In DancerVictory, the first lesson we teach is how to get the MOSTTT out of your life….something you can use no matter where you are in this journey called life. In order to get the MOSTTT out of your life you are going to need a few pieces of information.  They build on each other, and we will coach you through each and every step.

Mission: WHY must I win?

Operations: WHERE can I win?

Strategy: What will it TAKE to win?

Tactics:How will I win?

Tools:What will we USE to win?

Techniques: What will you DO to win?

Once you have thee answers to these questions, you are well on your way to winning, making more money, and getting what you really want out of life!

If you are ready to fill in the answers to these questions, get started now!

Saturday night at Babe’s Cabaret in Scottsdale Arizona was chock full of the SuperStripper’s target demographic: middle aged white guys in golf shirts and/or baseball jerseys.

Just shortly after midnight, I exited from stage two and made eye contact with the cute mid-twentyish blondie seated at the tip rail.  Strangely, on the tip rail in front of him was an envelope with his full name, hometown, and a 3rd place badge.

“Hi, What’s your name?” I purred.

“Corey” he slurred.

“Corey Hart from Ogden, UT?” I asked

His eyes lit up, “Whoooaaaa….how did you know that?  Oh my god!  Am I famous already?” he said holding up his third place ribbon.

“Uh….it’s right here on your envelope,” I said, pointing to the envelope on the tip rail that was glowing in the black light.

“I just placed third in the Frisbee-golf tournament!” He slurred excitedly….”and that’s the best of the best players in the world!”

“Awesome!  Lets go spend some of that prize money!” I said as I led him to the couches.

March is my favorite month of the Arizona Tourist Season!  Why can’t it always be like this?

It is official.  Strip and Grow Rich was awarded the US trademark for SuperStripper!

The first thing I did was go back and re-read MY personal definition:

SuperStrippers treat stripping like a business, not a job or a hobby. We have checking, savings, money market, retirement and brokerage accounts. We utilize the tax benefits of being a business owner. We have health insurance, life insurance, and disability insurance. We own our own homes and collect rental properties. We channel our cash flow from the Strip Club into investments and other assets to achieve passive income. Our ultimate goal is to have our passive income replace our earned income from dancing.

When I first started blogging, I was purely focused on the MONEY!!! How can I make the most money? How can I build my security basket? How can I acquire assets and leave this profession wealthy?

Over the past year, I’ve done a lot of self development and found a bit more balance. I’ve learned about the different personality types and their core motivators.  I am a huge fan of the Enneagram, and use it as a key component of DancerVictory.

I am a typical Enneagram Type 3: The Achiever and that definition of SuperStripper clearly reflects my personal bias. However there are eight other Personality types, and ALL of them have the potential to be SuperStrippers…just maybe not under my definition…

Last month, I reflected on the lessons I learned at SuperStripper Boot Camp and this is certainly one of them:

I realize that not everyone WANTS or has the innate personality to be a Superstripper machine, working 5-7 shifts a week.  When I go back and re-read my early blogs from 2007, I cringe a bit at the underlying tone when I discuss Supplemental, Student, and JobStrippers.

So help me write a new definition!

What does a SuperStripper look like to you?
What are her actions both inside and outside the club?
What does she do differently than the other girls in your club?

As I wrap up SuperStripper Bootcamps here in sunny Arizona next month, I am beginning to make plans for new LIVE EVENTS all across the country.

They will be an included free bonus to anyone who signs up for our new product which combines all three programs: DancerWealth (making more $ every shift), DancerWise (money smarts), and DancerVictory (self development & life enrichment).

This will be a great opportunity for like minded and enterprising ladies to come together and make new friends, learn new strategies to make money, and have some fun!

In the past we did these only in Vegas and there wasn’t really any follow up. One of the best parts will be the live feedback and the ability to ask questions and get personalized help.

We are thinking about where to hold these events and are looking for your input. So far we have Dallas, Philadelphia, Rhode Island, Vegas, and possibly Toronto in mind. Where would YOU like us to have these?

Collette, Los Angeles, CA:

Becoming one of the top earners in a strip club is no easy feat. It requires years of working in the environment with solid business relationships with the staff, having good money management strategies, establishing a good fitness and nutrition regimen, having strong marketing skills, having killer sales skills, and most importantly having the mindset of a “superstripper.” This bootcamp will lay down the foundation essential to developing and honing these skills and establishing the mindset that empowers you to succeed as an exotic dancer. There is no other experience like this!

Avalon and Donovan worked with me closely to identify my strengths and weaknesses. They offered me invaluable individualized advice that changed the way that I approach and sale to customers and the way that I used to view myself as “just an average stripper.” I now know how to improve my income by developing a base of repeat clientele. I can know how to be enticing to a variety of strip club patrons and now know how to be an entertainer.

Avalon and Donovan create a great learning environment because they are approachable, extremely knowledgeable, and open to questions. They made me feel comfortable because they were genuinely interested in helping me succeed.

I made three times my investment in the bootcamp while I worked during the bootcamp at Babe’s, one of the classiest gentleman’s clubs in Scottsdale.

In my club, I am now one of the “superstrippers.’

If you planning a career in exotic dancing, you must attend this bootcamp!

Apples have a round profile, which means they carry weight on their stomach and bust, and tend to have thinner arms and legs.

Here are more common characteristics of the lovely shaped apple. You tend to have a softer fuller middle, with full shapely breast. Your have broader shoulders and upper arms with an undefined waist.  You will have thinner hips and thighs and a flatter rear end than most. When Apples gain weight, they have a tendency to gain in the midsection.

Gravitate towards v-neck shapes in your tops. V-necks work for just about any body type because they elongate your body and have a natural slimming effect. Choose a v-neck top in a material that skims your body’s silhouette instead of a clingy fabric or one that is too loose.  A-line and empire dresses work well with apple shaped bodies. They hide all of your flaws and still manage to show off the good curves! This style narrows at the top and flares toward the bottom, which is why it is flattering for apple figures.

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An hourglass figure is the most proportioned body shape: shoulders and hips that are basically the same size with a smaller, defined waist.  Basically, her body looks like an hourglass. The hourglass is the classic voluptuous shape: Big bust, narrow waist and wider hips.

Wrap dresses are great for your body as they highlight your waist and should fall smoothly over your curves.  Also outfits with  a scoop or v-shaped neckline accentuate the hourglass shape’s full bust.

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The ruler shape is ’straight up and down’, which means you have narrow hips, long legs, slim figure and a (ahem…naturally) small bust. Whether you’re tall or short, your bust, waist and hip measurements tend to be quite similar.  If this is you….Congratulations! This is the typical long and lean body type that most teenage models possess.  Most stripper clothes will look GREAT on this body type.  The issue that rulers face is that they need to CREATE the illusion of curves.  Do this with styles that have keyhole cutouts to create the hourglass figure.

Broad shoulders, big bust, narrow hips? That’s an inverted triangle body shape. If this is your body shape, it’s easy to look good in a low cut neckline.  Dresses with an open or dramatic styling in the back are GREAT for bringing out the beautiful V-shaped back you have.

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This is also known as The Pear or the A Shape. The A shape woman has shoulders that are narrower than her hips and thighs.

Remember, no matter what your particular body shape may be, the key to finding flattering stripper outfits is accentuating your positive characteristics in order to draw attention away from less desirable characteristics. For women with pear shapes, the best costumes are those with an eye-catching top in a pattern or bright color and a bottom in a darker color that draws attention away from hips and thighs. To accentuate the bust and upper body, try pairing a halter-style bikini or tankini top with a dark bottom with high cut legs.

Here is an example of a dress that flatters the pear shape from Bad Kitty Exotic Wear

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