all blogposts and articles related to the psychological issues strippers must face. this includes the psychology of customers they deal with, of relationships, and how strippers are perceived by the mainstream society
Have him at HELLO!
One of the secrets that top strippers know is how to make a man hang on her every word. It’s not as easy as just slapping on some lipgloss and wearing a seductive outfit. To achieve financial freedom and have a group of regulars you need presence, credibility, and passion.
Making men hang on your every word starts with these five skills:
So, did anyone else have a problem answering some of those personality test questions? I did.
As entertainers, we put a mask on every night. We wear both a physical mask (hair extensions, fake boobs, fake eyelashes, heavy makeup) and an emotional mask. For those of you who are relatively new to entertaining, you may still be in the process of developing your Stripper Persona.
Tags: exotic dancer, personality, psychology, strip club, stripper, type
Panda from Dallas paid me a surprise visit on this week. I met Panda in January during Barrett-Jackson. He is a Blue: was easy to close, lots of fun, and wants to make sure everyone he is with is having as much fun as he is….just put it on the Black AmEx card. Curtis was with him again. They rolled in Tuesday night after a few cinco de mayo cocktails. The entertainer Curtis hung out with last time wasn’t working, so I introduced him to Cami. They never even sat down on the main floor, we just went straight to VIP. For Five Hours.
I met the most interesting person at Babes Cabaret the other night. The party of four white guys in golf shirts were seated at a table next to the main stage table. When it was my turn for stage rotation, DJ Billy blasted the Van Halen. Each gentleman at the table tipped me a Washington, the one closest to the stage tucked a Lincoln into the side of my gstring. As many of you know, I’m not a great stage dancer…but I am pretty good at closing a lapdance sale at the tip rail.
is what my husband has said about his parents, our neighbors, and anyone who knows me from my “real life.” I agree to a certain extent, but as I am preparing this carefully timed mass media marketing campaign…I’m pretty sure there are going to be some pretty surprised people who find out what I’ve really been up to the past 10 years.
Will they treat me differently? Are they going to think bad things about me? Will they start whispering behind my back?
Probably. But it’s not stopping me.
Tags: philosophy, psychology, relationships, sociology, stripper, stripper lifestyle, stripping
I devoured my $0.80 copy of Buyers Renters and Freeloaders yesterday as I sat in the sun.
It was well worth the eighty cents. Dr. Harley’s writing style makes it easy to read and his clear-cut philosophies just make perfect sense to me.
Although the book is designed for people who are dating, there is a lot of good info for ‘ole married broads like myself. I have always been fascinated with psychology. I want to discover why I make the choices that I do, especially if it was an out-of-character choice that is inconsistent with my typical values. Moreover, understanding other people’s motives have helped me keep my head (somewhat) straight in this crazy industry.
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I am working on the Psychology of a SuperStripper portion of Dancerwealth this week, so instead of funny strip club stories and musings, my posts are a bit deeper in nature this week.
One of my very first posts on this blog in April 2007 was entitled Strip Clubs Satisfy Men’s Emotional Needs Once again, if you haven’t read it, please do before proceeding.
As I was writing/recording the Psychology of Stripping Chapter for Dancerwealth.com I perused my own blog archives. If you haven’t read the August 2007 post entitled Exploiting the Madonna/Whore Complex, please read it before continuing.
Did you HONESTLY read it….or re-read it….
OK Good….
Tags: madonna whore complex, psychology, strippers
How can we build a better customer??
Posted by Bob_Loblaw on another site, used with permission.
Obviously, everyone will say the number one thing a customer can do is spend money. More specifically though, I think the key is in how a customer spends money. IMO, it should be both generously AND frequently. Read more... (1190 words, estimated 4:46 mins reading time)