Hello Ladies (and Gentlemen)!
Avalon asked me to post on here today so here goes…
I recently got out of a very intense but short relationship- 9.5 weeks- pun intended.
Yes, she’s a dancer, and no, I’m not telling where or any identifying details. If you take anything away from any relationship, you MUST take the LESSON you were supposed to learn, or you’re doomed to repeat it. I call it “Relationship Groundhog Day”- you know, like the movie with Bill Murray?
It’s about time! Texas finally de-criminalized vibrators! Thanks for that newsflash Susan Wayward! I must pass it on.
I found some really bad stripper advice. Even worse, its from a site that sells a book on “How to be a Stripper.” I had written another comment dissecting their viewpoint of how they feel that selling lapdances pits “us girls” against “sick perverts” but they declined to post it publicly. I’m all for Freedom of Speech. Even if I disagree with something someone has to say, I’m not going to block their comment if it is relevent.
I picked up this month’s copy of Scientific American at Barnes and Noble. I needed some sort of stimulating reading while Li buffed my french manicured toes, and the salon’s offerings have been limited to US Weekly, People, and Jane lately. The headline article Why We Kiss is actually available online.
I’m Back!
On a recent episode of “Dirty Sexy Money,” ABC’s soapy drama about the filthy rich, heiress Karen Darling gets married for the fourth time, to a golf pro. Minutes after the ceremony, she decides she wants a divorce, leaving the golfer to wonder about his $3 million guarantee in the pre-nuptial agreement.
I saw this article when I logged off of hotmail.
If you don’t want to read the whole article, I found these snippets very interesting.
Of course, our generation can afford to chuck the Cinderella story when the glass slipper doesn’t fit. While our grandmothers were forced to remain shackled to unhappy unions for monetary reasons, most women today have the financial wherewithal to cry uncle and bolt whenever we get uncomfortable.
More and more women have that throwaway mentality with their first marriage — the ‘I want it now’ attitude.” Until, of course, you don’t.
Sept 10
Why do people settle?
They settle in sub-par relationships. They settle with humdrum careers. They settle with their mediocre salary. They settle with their annual vacation to the same place year after year. They settle with not rocking the boat because they’re afraid of “what if…”
Most people doubt their full potential. They feel like things happen to them rather than taking the initiative to make things happen for them. Its easier that way. It sure is a lot easier than failure.
Not an uncommon theme I deal with on a daily basis.
“My marriage is falling apart. My wife and I just don’t have the same feelings for each other than when we first started dating. I guess I just don’t love her anymore and she doesn’t love me. The feeling just isn’t there anymore….What can ya do?”
Men and women have such different methods for dealing with break ups. Women eat ice cream and talk it out with their best girl friends. It’s a way of bonding: sharing emotional experiences and helping each other get through hard times is what makes female friendships stronger. The locker room at the strip club is ALWAYS full of relationship drama!
$25/hr Jobs and When You Earn More Than Your Man
Monday, October 1st, 2007Oct 1
Hotmail always has the most interesting articles.
The first one that caught my eye was $25/hour Jobs http://msn.careerbuilder.com/custom/msn/careeradvice/viewarticle.aspx?articleid=1156&SiteId=cbmsnhp41156&sc_extcmp=JS_1156_home1>1=10466&cbRecursi..1&cbsid=bad15b8706e44a178c9c24fab01d8416-244570720-JM-5 Of the 10 jobs that were profiled, only two did not require an advanced degree: detective and human resource manager. However, they did require appropriate training (read: years of working your way up the ladder) Read more... (539 words, estimated 2:09 mins reading time)
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