As I approach my 11 Year Anniversary of Stripping (which is TONIGHT by the way!!) I have been reflecting on what makes the difference between a GREAT night and a crappy night.
It all comes down to internally generated CONFIDENCE This feeling is contagious and guys love being around it! It stems from a mental state where everything comes to you effortlessly and easily. You may have heard this before, on The Secret or one of the other popular programs out there:
- You’re “firing on all cylinders”
- You’re “in the zone”
- You’re “psyched, stoked, all fired up”
- Your “mind and body are one”
In a previous blog entry I even called it flow. You can lose track of time, you feel extra creative and energetic, you become focused on something you’re really good at.
I’ve been learning some fantastic tricks to keep myself in this flow all night long. Here is a simple one I read on another blog:
Get a little piece of jewelry that has special meaning for you.: a ring, a necklace, whatever. Then the next time you’re feeling amazing (at the beach, at yoga class, with your boyfriend, or wherever it happens) hold tight to that piece of jewelry. Let the good feeling associate itself with that piece of jewelry. It won’t take but a few times doing this, and then the jewelry itself makes you feel good just because it reminds you so vividly of the time when you felt good before.
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