Is going to the strip club considered cheating in your relationship?
I had to add that last part. There is no right or wrong answer to this question, because every relationship is based upon different mutually acceptable agreements.
I have customers ask me from time to time, “I don’t think I’m cheating on her by being here…do you?”
My response is always, “Whose opinion matters more to you, mine or your wife’s?”
In my marriage, me going to the strip club is not cheating. I don’t go to the strip club with the intention of flirting with other men for attention or affection. If my spouse goes to the strip club, has a few beers, and gets a few dances, I don’t consider that cheating either….but I do get peeved when the tab starts creeping above a certain dollar figure.
Nevertheless, even though it’s not “cheating”…I would be lying if I said that being a stripper didn’t have an effect on my marriage. That is a pretty loose statement on purpose. Lots of things can have an effect on relationships: having children, not having children, addiction, rehabilitation, accidents, illnesses, promotions, job losses, gambling, conflict management, abuse, etc.
I’d love to hear your thoughts….
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