It’s about time! Texas finally de-criminalized vibrators! Thanks for that newsflash Susan Wayward! I must pass it on.
I found some really bad stripper advice. Even worse, its from a site that sells a book on “How to be a Stripper.” I had written another comment dissecting their viewpoint of how they feel that selling lapdances pits “us girls” against “sick perverts” but they declined to post it publicly. I’m all for Freedom of Speech. Even if I disagree with something someone has to say, I’m not going to block their comment if it is relevent.
In eight and a half years of dancing I’ve never had a stalker. I’ve never felt my safety was threatened. I’ve never had to move my family to another town to get away from a client. Gee, maybe it’s because I don’t lead men that I deem to be mentally unstable to believe that I’m “dating” them. Think about it: if a client actually believes that your “dates” are inside a strip club; yet you won’t let him meet your kids, you won’t see him outside the club, and you ignore him if you do happen to see him…and he still thinks that the two of you are “dating”… then you are playing with fire and setting the stage for an explosion.
That exposion occurs when the mentally unstable client goes across the line and wants to become a part of your life. How dare he! I mean how many girls let a finacially stable boyfriend meet their kids after they’ve known them for a year? Especially when he donated to little Jimmy’s baseball team and little Susie’s dance troup? If you have to”break up” with a client and then worry if he is going to stalk you then YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG!
Now, I’ve had a few potential “White Knights” lose interest in me because I don’t play this game. For my non-stripper readers the White Knight is the client who had deep pockets and want to “rescue” you and be your sugar daddy. To be fair, I have actually seen entertainers leave dancing and marry their White Knight. Its rare, but it happens. Most of the time though, the entertainer is manipulating the mind of a very emotionally unstable person. Manipulators never win in the end. Instead, learn how to create win/win situations for both you and your clients so you build trust and longer lasting business relationships.
Valentine’s Day had a slow start at Christie’s Cabaret last night. By 9:30 the Sports Equipment Convention guys started rolling in. I danced for some guy who has his own cable TV show on ESPN2! “Wow! It’s like dancing for the Tool Time guys!” I giggled.
Right on cue, my knee started hurting at 1:15. Thats also when half the girls left and all the guys in the house decided they wanted table dances. I closed out the night and trekked home to my humble abode in the far flung suburbs. It started to rain just as I entered my brightly lit, well manicured, cookie cutter HOA. It hasn’t stopped raining yet and I have an overwhelming urge to consume copious amounts of carbohydrates and lay on the couch.
Hmm. think that might be counter-productive to walking around in a gstring tonight
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