Current mood: creative
My good friend LapGrinder posted this on her website www.lapgrinder.com
I’m a bad girl. I like being naked, I like flirting, I like being sexy and rubbing that sexiness all over your lap.
I have good morals. I don’t like seeing people hurt, I wont say malicious or vile things about another person to make myself feel better, and I NEVER resort to physical violence (unless someome REALLY deserves it!)…….
So what makes a good person or a bad person? Is it me being topless in a public place? Does that make me bad? Or does it make me good? And what if we look at stripping as doing a good deed? Poor guy comes to the club, sad, had a bad day, and in desperate need of cheering up. Otherwise he’ll go home to his wife, be sullen and moody, she’ll think he’s being distant and assume it’s because he doesn’t love her anymore, so she will in turn get bitchy and whiney which will only make his bad mood worse because he’ll wonder why she can’t be sweet qand sexy when he needs her to be. They’ll get divorced and and the dog will run off with the truck!
Really, I see myself as a hero most of the time.
I have to agree wholeheartedly.
It never ceases to amaze me how BOOBS can cheer up a man’s day. Lets face it, doing a good deed makes us feel good about ourselves too!It’s such a great feeling to know that I made some stranger’s day. At the end of the night when I pack up the lip gloss and stilettos I know I did a good deed for a someone who needed an outlet to vent.
It’s a shame that most of my co-workers don’t see it that way. They lie about being married, lead customers on, play head games, say they will meet them somewhere and then make up a lame excuse why they no-showed. It’s pathetic, and it’s what gives strippers such a negative stereotype. I’m a horrible liar. So I don’t, for the most part. I wear my wedding ring at work and make it obvious that I’m going home to hubby after the club closes.
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I tell guys/girls all the time ” I know it’s an oxymoron perhaps but I’m an honest stripper.” Often times I have gotten and kept regulars due to my honesty and charm. It really does make me happy to know I made someone’s night special. I always say I’m not a stripper I’m a topless therapist.
Kristine
as i was reading this i had big crocodile tears. working in mexico as a stripper is really hard, men are really mean to you and they refer to you as a hooker even if you don’t work like that.
i it really hard to be nice to those kind of guys, that made me kidda bitter for a while, i was so sad i was becoming a mean biatch and what was more a worthless girl in an uptight country.
i am paying my way through school with my stripping money and guys and girls from school have found out that i strip, some i’ve found while working.
some friends even stoped talking to me. but i never cared about that, the thing that normally hits me is when i discover myself thinking that i might be a bad girl, that i might be hurting people.
it is really hard to convince my self that i’m not doing anything wrong. why do all girls hate strippers and why are guys so unrespectful, that really makes if impossible to try to make a good mark in somebody’s day.
Societal standards are different in Mexico, but self respect ALWAYS comes from within.